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Rochester needs better venues.

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Oh hey, Lil B

Oh hey, Lil B

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dearyoungphotographer:

Dear Young Photographer, good photojournalism is about the eye not the “I.”

Go to this on June 7, 2014 and celebrate some birthdays and enjoy some sick tunes!

Go to this on June 7, 2014 and celebrate some birthdays and enjoy some sick tunes!

Anonymous asked: What are the signs of emotional abuse?

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tierracita:

mental-health-advice:

Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.

Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.

Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.

Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.

Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.

Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,

Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.

Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.

Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.

Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.

Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.

Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.

Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.

Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.

Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.

Love, Salem

it’s like a road map my abuser used on me.

It funny it’s almost like I’ve experienced every single one of these at the hands of two very toxic people.

I don’t usually reblog things like this, but it reminded me of how my last ex treated me and how only a few people know and truly believe me.

Not too long ago I posted a photo set of pictures i’ve taken at the Bug Jar of stoner/doom metal bands. This picture I had taken from said photo set is of Mark Metzger from the band Chillum. He passed away last night and it has hit the Rochester/Buffalo metal and punk scene hard. I didn’t know him personally and only had a few interactions with him, but he’s been nice to me around those times. Rest in piece, Mark. Hope you’re hitting a bong with Jesus up there.

Not too long ago I posted a photo set of pictures i’ve taken at the Bug Jar of stoner/doom metal bands. This picture I had taken from said photo set is of Mark Metzger from the band Chillum. He passed away last night and it has hit the Rochester/Buffalo metal and punk scene hard. I didn’t know him personally and only had a few interactions with him, but he’s been nice to me around those times. Rest in piece, Mark. Hope you’re hitting a bong with Jesus up there.

Chillum, Sun Black Smoke, and Blizaro playing at the Bug Jar

The stunning sight of hundreds of bright blue butterflies was almost too much for the six-month-old kitten, Lepa, as he bounced over and started trying to catch them. The comical chase was captured by student Natalia Moldovanova in Leningrad Oblast, Russia. After awhile Lepa got tired and collapsed among the butterflies, seemingly in paradise | Article.

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metalheadxmanny:

It’s the time of the year!

metalheadxmanny:

It’s the time of the year!

Did a little photoshoot yesterday..

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